I remember one time, I took a break in the middle of the workshop and went out to get a snack. I was in the snack line behind a couple people from the workshop who didn't know I was behind them. They were talking and one of them said to the other, "Oh, I'm just so sick of this, this has been such a problem for a long time", and the other one said "Well, why not talk to Jannie and catch her on a break?" and the first one said "Nah, she'll just want me to do something about it."
And why not? It beats the alternative. My best to you.